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Pitra Bali in Shraddha – Honoring Our Ancestors with Faith

In my previous article, we explored the significance of Shraddha Paksha. This sacred period is believed to be a time when our ancestors (Pitrs) became powerful as the gods themselves. During these days, descendants offer prayers and food to Brahmins on specific dates associated with their ancestors, inviting blessings and peace for their departed souls. However, many people face challenges in life, like business failures or personal struggles, often due to Pitra Dosh—a karmic imbalance caused by not honoring one’s ancestors.

Loss in Business and Other Life Struggles

One way to identify the presence of Pitra Dosh (ancestral karmic imbalance) is by observing continuous hardships in life, such as repeated losses in business, difficulties in having children, or domestic disturbances during auspicious events. These are considered signs that our ancestors are displeased. In Hindu belief, if we fail to honor or remember our ancestors during important life events, they may feel neglected and, in turn, may withhold their blessings.

For example, in marriage ceremonies, it is customary to offer prayers and respect to ancestors to ensure their blessings for a smooth and successful event. This acknowledgment helps prevent obstacles and ensures harmony. Performing Tarpan—a ritual offering water to ancestors during Shraddha Paksha—is one way to express devotion and respect, helping to remove ancestral dissatisfaction and bring peace to their souls.

In Hindu culture, showing disrespect to sacred animals like snakes, serpents, or cows, or neglecting one’s Kuldevi (family deity) or God, also contributes to Pitra Dosh. Additionally, ignoring the regular feeding of ancestors and Brahmins, particularly during Amavasya (new moon), can intensify this karmic burden. As long as these duties remain unfulfilled, the ancestral curse remains, obstructing progress and prosperity.

The Importance of Ancestral Rites

According to Hindu beliefs, living without a connection to one’s Dharma (religious duty) or disrespecting sacred beings like cows, serpents, or the family deity (Kuldevi), can intensify ancestral curses. It’s also important to honor ancestors regularly, especially during Amavasya (the new moon), by offering food to Brahmins. Neglecting these duties can perpetuate the ancestral curse, keeping it unresolved in your life.

The Modern Generation and Ancestral Customs

In today’s world, the younger generation often disregards these traditions, associating them with conservatism. Influenced by modern, foreign ideals, many find these rituals outdated. However, these beliefs are like the protective rakhi (a sacred thread tied during Raksha Bandhan), representing our deep connection to our cultural heritage. This red thread of belief and protection is woven into our lives from birth, binding us to our roots.

Why Shraddha Paksha Matters

As we inherit homes, wealth, and success built by the hard work of our ancestors, it is crucial to honor the spiritual customs they passed down to us. During Shraddha Paksha, some ancestors, who may not have attained moksha (liberation), might communicate with their descendants through dreams or signs, urging us to perform the necessary Shraddha rituals or Tarpan. This helps them continue on their spiritual journey towards salvation.

Symptoms of Pitra Shrap (Ancestral Curse)

Childlessness: Difficulty in having children, or having children with physical or mental challenges, can be signs of an ancestral curse.

Astrological Signs: According to Rishi Parashara, in astrology, the presence of Rahu (a malefic planet) in the fifth house of a person’s horoscope, or the influence of Saturn on the same house, can indicate Pitra Dosh. These planetary influences signify ancestral discontent.

In some cases, the curse of a Brahmin can also cause a lack of happiness related to children. Thus, it is essential to respect and honor Brahmins, as they hold a sacred position in the community.

The Role of Faith in Shraddha Paksha

If you face persistent obstacles despite working hard, it might be due to Pitra Dosh or Pitra Shraap (ancestral curse). In such cases, it is recommended to perform special prayers and Havana (fire rituals) with the guidance of experienced spiritual leaders. This helps remove the negative effects of the curse and brings blessings. During this period, even the gods cannot intervene until the ancestors are pacified. They, too, experience suffering until they are liberated, which is why Shraddha Paksha must be observed with deep faith and devotion.

Respecting Living Parents Along with Ancestors

While honoring ancestors during Shraddha is essential, it is equally important to respect and care for our living parents. They are our immediate protectors, and their blessings are invaluable. Disrespecting them can lead to new karmic burdens. Remember, our parents selflessly sacrifice for our happiness, and their contentment is key to avoiding further spiritual imbalances.

Conclusion: Faithful Practices for Shraddha Paksha

In our upcoming articles, we will explore specific mantras, prayers, and stotras (hymns) that can be easily recited during Shraddha Paksha, even by those unable to perform the full rituals. These spiritual practices will help honor our ancestors and bring peace to both the living and the departed souls. Stay tuned for these simple, devotional practices that anyone can perform with faith during this sacred time.

-HH Shri Chamunda Swamiji.

Even though plenty of literature is available on spiritual practices, it is highly recommended that one learn these methods under the supervision of a Guru or an expert. Everyone has unique spirituality, personality, and experiences. One solution cannot fit all. Therefore, seeking guidance from spiritual experts is imperative to get that unique mantra, meditation, and spiritual method crafted exclusively for you for the spiritual awakening you seek. And hence, we recommend you practice these interpretations and practices mentioned above under the guidance of an expert.

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